My biggest suggestion is that admins post something here immediately when something happens. The first place I come to is the forums to be sure I am not the only one with the problem. But there is never anything here to explain what is going on.
We shouldn't have to post problems to get info on what is going on. Sure, we can write support tickets, but until they get answered we are sitting i the dark. If you are able to log into cpanel and see that things are in failed mode, you get scared half to death that you have lost valuable data. You can't bachk up your site evry five minutes and you sure can't do it when you can't even connect to it.
I have also seen in this forum several times people referred to as bad users. Usually this occurs on sites that generate a large amount of SQL queries. Now, if a site is popular and runs on an sql database, then wouldn't that draw the large amount of sql queries, and does that make that operator a bad user? This concerns me because I use and sql database and hope to get popular one day. Will I then be one of those 'bad users'? I need to know this because if I'm going to have problems down the road because of this, I may need to seek a host that doesn't mind my site. and I would have never gone to a site generated by an sql database idf I thought it was going to lead to trouble. Hostony itself offers php nuke in its built in scripts. So I would like to have defined what makes a bad user. Almost everything I do relies on sql databases.
Aside from the technical issues of why server load is high and failures occur, those are my main concerns. Now aren't you glad you asked